{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Verbal Substance","provider_url":"https:\/\/verbalsubstance.com\/fr","author_name":"Yusha Muhammad","author_url":"https:\/\/verbalsubstance.com\/fr\/author\/yusha\/","title":"\"Wall\" - Poem & Analysis - Verbal Substance","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"Rk7wxZoslR\"><a href=\"https:\/\/verbalsubstance.com\/fr\/wall-poem-analysis\/\">&#8220;Wall&#8221; &#8211; Poem &#038; Analysis<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/verbalsubstance.com\/fr\/wall-poem-analysis\/embed\/#?secret=Rk7wxZoslR\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&laquo; &#8220;Wall&#8221; &#8211; Poem &#038; Analysis &raquo; &#8212; Verbal Substance\" data-secret=\"Rk7wxZoslR\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/verbalsubstance.com\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>","description":"When foundations of love crumble and take a fallemotional numbness develops till the subconscious creates a wall.Every brick presents a form of pain, layered in thick cementwith intents to take charge and safeguard a wounded heart.years pass,and fear has our thought wary,very difficult bear a clear path.When approached by someone sincere,known to shift gears and veer fast, as if we&#8217;re the flame that&#8217;s near gas.The trauma is so severe, while reaching hope for love;decent folks get treated like mere trash.Sort of find, petty reasons to draw the linecriticism start to form in mindshow every misstep&#8217;s a warning sign.It seems people gradually, grown so used to toxic atmosphere,now positive settings seem foreign and deemed boring.Impulse to rekindle old flames is next to riseyet ponder, why return to the source where stress derived.Time to turn grief to perseverance- stop the aim for sympathyremain in misery or take shots to gain a victory.Experience exists to guide and teach,providing each person with life lessons to mange, not turn sorrow to baggage.We have two critical roles to possibly serve in lifeeither become &#8220;Damaged Goods&#8221; or &#8220;Quality Merchandise&#8221;.We could linger- play victim like nothing at all mattersor rather keep swinging hammers till this accursed wall shatters. Analysis on &#8220;Wall&#8221; Within the realm of love, it\u2019s a universal fact that no one departs from relationships unscathed. This analysis will focus on subconscious defense mechanisms that can arise as a result of emotional pain. And I will also delve into obstacles individuals may endure, while attempting to breaking through psychological barriers for potential love. When relationships or emotional connection comes to an end, the pain can lead to emotional numbness as a way to protect oneself from further hurt as the subconscious mind may then create a metaphorical wall. Each brick in this wall can symbolize past emotional wounds, disappointments, betrayals, or any other negative experiences that have contributed to the pain being felt. The thick cement that holds the bricks together can represent the strong defenses and barriers that are erected to shield oneself from further emotional harm. However, while these defenses may initially provide a sense of safety, they can also contribute to emotional detachment and hinder the ability to fully experience and engage in future relationships or connections. Exploring and understanding the pain behind each brick, and gradually dismantling the wall, can be a part of the healing process. \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0Lingering Fear It appears that after experiencing emotional pain and building defensive walls, the passage of time has left a lingering fear and uncertainty. This fear can make it challenging to see a clear path forward. When someone genuine and sincere approaches, there is a tendency to overreact and respond by quickly changing directions, as if they are a potential source of danger or further pain. The subconscious defenses that were established as a protective mechanism may still be active, causing a hypersensitivity to potential threats. Even when encountering someone who may genuinely care, the fear and past wounds can lead to instincts to distancing oneself. This response is a natural self-preservation instinct, but it can also prevent the possibility of building new connections and finding love again. When we&#8217;ve been deeply hurt, it&#8217;s common to develop hypervigilance and a heightened sensitivity to any potential signs of danger or betrayal. This can cause a distorted perception of others&#8217; intentions and actions, leading to unnecessary criticism. The severity of the trauma may lead to treating even well-meaning individuals poorly, perceiving them as flawed or expecting the worst from them. This can manifest as finding petty instances or minor mistakes as reasons to draw a line and criticize others, as a way to avoid disappointment. \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0Love-chasing Obstacles On the other side of the equation, I experienced dilemmas while attempting to aid in breaking a past victim&#8217;s wall of despair. My goal presented an uphill battle when the scorned individual proved to be difficult by seemingly placing the bricks back in position. Patience, understanding, and support are essential components to building a strong foundation, as I conveyed my intentions clearly and compassionately. While my intentions, as a hopeless romantic, may have been genuine and caring, I learned that pushing her too soon or trying to forcefully dismantle her wall can cause further harm or reinforce defensive mechanisms. Suddenly I was scrutinized and my missteps were labeled as warning signs, as a means to justify her impulsive reactions and establishing exit strategies. This behavior was challenging and hurtful to experience, as it felt like my actions were being unfairly magnified and used against me. After doing some self-assessment, reevaluating my self worth and recognizing my limitations of dealing with a scorned individual&#8217;s deep rooted trauma, I decided to read the writings on the wall, trust my instincts and respected her to decision to part ways. If you find that someone&#8217;s pain is overwhelming or negatively impacting your own emotional health, it may be necessary to reassess the dynamics of the relationship. When you witness someone who appears deeply wounded from past love, it&#8217;s crucial to prioritize your own well-being. While it is admirable to want to support and help someone in pain, it should never come at the expense of your own well-being or allow their"}